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Jan 2025
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Episode 95: Recovery Redefined: Rediscov...

Julia Trehane
About this episode

What does eating disorder recovery truly mean? In this transformative episode of Fly to Freedom, I uncover the deeper meaning of recovery. It’s not just about overcoming the fear of eating or stopping destructive behaviours—it’s about rediscovering who you are, learning to meet your needs, and creating a life that aligns with your authentic self.

Whether you are struggling with anorexia, bulimia, binge eating, orthorexia, or any other eating disorder, FOOD is often a symptom and not the real problem. Recovery is about addressing the deeper layers—emotional, psychological, and physical—that contribute to the eating disorder, helping you build a life of freedom and self-compassion.

In this episode, I’ll explore:

  • Why recovery is about more than food and weight gain fears.
  • How to reconnect with your emotions and let go of the “shoulds.”
  • Building trust with your body and listening to its signals for hunger, rest, and care.
  • The power of gratitude and how it can transform your journey.
  • Practical tips and reflective questions to help you embrace self-discovery in recovery.

Recovery isn’t a fixed destination—it’s a lifelong journey of growth, learning, and becoming more aligned with your true self. Whether you’re in the early stages of anorexia recovery or further along in your eating disorder recovery, this episode will inspire and empower you to move forward with compassion and curiosity.

Key Takeaways:

  • Let go of perfection and focus on reconnecting with your messy, beautiful, real self.
  • Embrace the full range of your emotions—they’re signals, not enemies.
  • Start trusting your body—it’s your ally, not your enemy.
  • Small steps matter: Set boundaries, say no when you mean no, and prioritise your needs.
  • Gratitude shifts your mindset from scarcity to abundance, helping you find joy in the present moment.

Reflective Questions to Support Your Recovery:

  1. What does recovery mean to you?
  2. How often do you prioritise others’ needs over your own?
  3. What would it feel like to live a life free of the “shoulds”?
  4. What’s one step you can take today to reconnect with your authentic self?

💬 Let’s continue the conversation! Share your reflections or questions with me—send a message or journal your thoughts privately.


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