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Mar 2023
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Episode 4: Why Trauma Bonds are Mistaken...

Laura Copley
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In this episode, Dr. Laura Copley outlines how trauma bonds can be both powerful and intoxicating, often being mistaken for genuine love. Tune into this episode to learn more about what is happening psychologically and physically to the human mind and body that keeps us addicted to the toxic relationship. 

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