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Dec 2024
33m 54s

Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone in 2025

Dr Jodi Aman and Lily Aman
About this episode

Hi everyone, it’s Dr. Jodi, and welcome back toAsk Dr. Jodi! As we wrap up 2024 and look ahead to a new year, I’m so excited to explore the topic of stepping outside your comfort zone. Together with my daughter Lily, we’ll share our personal experiences, reflect on challenges we faced this year, and talk about how we can all push past our limits in 2025—one small, brave step at a time. Let’s dive in!

Episode Summary
In this reflective and motivating episode, Dr. Jodi Aman and her daughter, Lily, share their personal experiences of stepping outside their comfort zones in 2024. Together, they discuss why discomfort often feels dangerous, how to differentiate between healthy risks and harmful ones, and the benefits of pushing past limits in a mindful way.

From overcoming fears like flying, social situations, and networking challenges to finding balance between growth and safety, this conversation highlights practical strategies to expand your comfort zone one step at a time. Dr. Jodi and Lily provide insights on taking small, manageable steps toward personal growth and creating goals for 2025 that stretch you without overwhelming you.

Listeners seeking to overcome fears, grow confidence, or prepare for new challenges will find relatable examples, encouragement, and actionable advice to make 2025 a year of meaningful growth.

Key Takeaways

  • What is a Comfort Zone? It’s the invisible boundary where everything feels familiar and safe. Stepping outside it is necessary for growth but must be done thoughtfully.
  • The Difference Between Risks: Learn to take calculated risks—ones that balance benefits and safety—versus risky, impulsive choices that may cause harm.
  • Small Steps Lead to Big Change: Start with small actions to build confidence, whether it’s facing a fear, trying something new, or reaching out to others.
  • The Role of Familiarity: The more you face discomfort, the easier it becomes to expand your comfort zone and reduce anxiety over time.
  • The Power of Support: Sharing experiences with trusted friends or loved ones can help you take risks while staying connected and grounded.

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Jodi Aman is a social work doctor with 28 years of experience in clinical practice. She helps clients heal from trauma, understand the world, and reclaim self-confidence. She created C.O.M.P.A.S.S., an emotional wellness curriculum for middle and high school health classes designed to mitigate symptoms of anxiety and depression.

 

You can find hundreds of self-help videos on YouTube @doctorjodi. Also, watch her TEDx Wilmington talk, "Calm Anxious Kids," and read her award-winning book, Anxiety… I'm So Done with You! to learn how to understand and reverse the current mental health crisis. More about Jodi.

 

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