Facing Your Fears: How to Decide, How to Cope, and Why It Matters: Fear is a normal part of life, but not every fear needs to be conquered. This week, Lily and I explore how to tell when a challenge is worth it and when it is perfectly fine to give yourself a break. We share personal stories, like Lily’s recent blood test and my own flying anxiety, and dig into why having a choice and an exit plan can make all the difference.
You will learn:
Key Takeaways
You Always Have a Choice
Facing your fears is about feeling empowered, not pressured. You get to decide which challenges matter to you.
Anticipatory Anxiety is Often Worse Than the Event
Worrying about something can consume more energy than actually doing it. Getting to the other side often brings relief.
Exit Plans Help
Knowing you have the control to leave or change your mind makes it easier to try new things.
Not Every Fear Needs to Be Faced
If the outcome does not matter to you, you don't need to face that thing.
Celebrate Every Win
Every time you face a fear, no matter how small, you build resilience and confidence for the next challenge.
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