The people who avoid you

If you feel like an outsider in a world that seems unrelatable, could it be because you’re yearning for authenticity in your connections? I know I am. Making friendships and romantic relationships can sometimes seem like a lesson in futility. 

If you find yourself constantly being blamed for everything going wrong, it's time to question whether you’re being manipulated into believing what may be a deflection. In this episode, I tackle the sometimes tricky dynamics of responsibility and blame. 

If returning to your childhood hometown stirs up memories you’d rather leave behind, does that mean you’re not ready to face them? I’ll dive into this area with a heartfelt question from someone seeking closure from past trauma, wondering if revisiting their roots could be the ke ... Show More

You might be confused as to why your avoidant attached partner needs as much space or perhaps why they detach and disappear for days. This episode may shed some light and help you assist them.   If you have an avoidant attachment style and it's kept you from forming meaningf ... Show More

In this episode, I talk about people who want you to think you're "making a big deal out of nothing." I talk about the type of partner you deserve - someone who provides space for you to be honest, even if they don't agree.My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon.Inst ... Show More

In this episode, I talk about why closure isn’t something you get from them, it’s the decision to stop needing them. I talk about how to reset your perspective, let go, and move on.My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon.Instagram: @case.kenny 

Does your partner tune you out, or get defensive and withdrawn when you try to get vulnerable with them? Check you're not accidentally repelling them by doing this one thing. If you prefer to watch the IG live you can do so here Anxious to Spacious, my women's group, starts Octob ... Show More

You hit send. You see the “Delivered” tick turn to “Read.” And then... nothing. The silence is louder than any notification. Your mind starts racing: Are they hurt? Are they ignoring me? Did my message come on too strong? Was it the wrong emoji?Before you spiral into that abyss o ... Show More

You’re probably trying to understand why it is your partner does not engage in conflict or worse, they walk away when a conflict begins. What can even be a little more confusing as when they return without discussing the problem at all; pretending like it never happened in the fi ... Show More

Send us a textIt’s easy for someone to look at your relationship and think that it should not be lasting as long as it does. You may even know that the relationship your end should end and you don’t know why you haven’t left us yet. Or perhaps you did find a courage and strength ... Show More

In this episode, I explore emotional avoidance — what it looks like, why it shows up in women with high-functioning anxiety, and how it often ties back to childhood trauma.We also dive into how disconnection from your body keeps emotions stuck, and practical ways to notice and ge ... Show More

Sometimes we end up in relationships or friendships with people who hurt us, but whether it’s because of our trauma or rose-colored glasses, we romanticize them instead of seeing them for who they really are. Today we talk about why this happens, what to do, and how to get out of ... Show More

In this episode, I talk about how what's "right" about you is helping you avoid mediocrity in life. I talk about how to remove the idea that there's something "wrong" with you and to find power in your timeline.My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon.Instagram: @case ... Show More