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Nov 2023
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E74 - Stephan Speaks, LOVE Expert: When ...

André Duqum
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Relationship expert Stephan Speaks shares his wisdom and expertise on how to cultivate a thriving and healthy relationship. He delves into the nuances between love and infatuation, providing valuable insights on how to distinguish between these intense emotions and last after the honeymoon phase. He sheds light on the common blockages that keep people from falling in love - from courting while dating to co-dependancy. Stephan also reveals the 3 factors that determine if your relationship is going to work. 

Cultivating healthy masculine and feminine dynamics within a partnership is crucial for sustainable and harmonious relationships. Stephan shares invaluable advice on fostering a balanced and supportive dynamic, allowing each partner to thrive authentically.

On the flip-side of falling in love, heartbreak can be one of our greatest teachers in life. Stephan and André discuss how to heal after a breakup and cultivate the courage to start dating again.


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Timecodes:

0:00 Intro

1:22 Exciting Update with Know Thyself

2:29 The Difference Between Love and Infatuation

4:27 Is it Trauma-Bonding or Genuine Attraction?

6:22 How to Heal Neediness & Co-dependancy 

8:44 3 Factors that Determine If a Relationship Works (Chemistry, Compatibility, Connection)

12:54 Why Courting Ruins Relationships

16:11 Using Relationships as a Mirror for your Growth

20:44 Stephan’s Journey of Becoming His True Self

25:13  The Power of Authenticity 

29:18 Cultivating the Courage to Fall in Love Again

36:01 When to Lean in vs. When to Let Go

41:02 How to Heal Through Heartbreak

46:53 Why Some Women Like Bad Boys

49:35 This is a HUGE Problem for Men...

52:38 Why He Has Commitment Issues

58:45 Spiritual Connection in relationship

1:01:58 Getting Clear on What You Want

1:05:50 Can They Change? Pattern vs Potential

1:10:04 “You Complete Me”

1:13:18 Navigating The Biological Pressure to Have Kids

1:19:20 Revering and Supporting the Feminine

1:25:55 Everybody Needs to Heal

1:27:49 Conclusion


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Stephan Labossiere is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling.

As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.


Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!


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Website: https://www.stephanspeaks.com


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