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Mar 2024
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People Pleasing: Fear of Rejection & The...

HALEY HOFFMAN SMITH
About this episode

Let's talk about PEOPLE PLEASING! How do we know we're doing? What is it, REALLY? And how can we start to set boundaries? We get into all of it in this episode. There are many root causes of people pleasing that we'll be identifying and releasing via EFT Tapping in the next round of Slingshot Sessions: Deeper Peace Era - we have an upcoming session called PEOPLE PLEASING: FEAR OF BEING DISLIKED! 

 

Get tickets here by 3.25 - https://www.universe.com/events/slingshot-sessions-deep-peace-era-tickets-K8G7C0

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