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Aug 2023
39m 37s

212. Here's why you ALWAYS feel somethin...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

Tell me if this sounds familiar…

You’ve hit a high in your life, whether that’s a business high, a relationship high, a money high, or something else. It feels great…

Except that it doesn’t.

You can’t stop looking over your shoulder, checking both ways before you move, waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment. Things have been going too good, so something bad has to be coming next, right?

I've heard almost every single student and client experience this in one form or another. They’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop when things start getting good. 

“But Beatrice, it’s true! Every time things get good, something bad comes along.”

Does it? Or do you think you might be playing into a bit of self-fulling prophecy?

Let’s explore where this sense of impending doom comes from…and how we unconsciously do everything we can to prove that sense right.

 

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