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Aug 2021
23m 40s

#22: When Things Spiral Out of Control

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

When things fall apart, it's normal to spiral and feel out of control.Ā  If you're like me, you might start to think that the universe is out to get you and blame yourself for not doing enough. In this episode, I share how to shift out of the energy of our wounded inner child, and align and surrender with your empowered inner child by doing LESS, and not more!

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Episode Highlights:

  • My moving disaster and how I moved through old wounds being triggered
  • Why wounded inner children become wounded adults who operate from a place of over-giving and overdoing to overcompensate for the lack of control
  • Learning how to SURRENDER, and let go of control and allowing things to naturally happen
  • Principle of "Less is More": You don't really need "more" tools, strategies or resources
  • Why our brains remember "bad" things more than good things
  • The incredible transformation and real feedback from one of my Inner Child Academy students in healing her childhood, and recovering memories!!

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships.Ā 

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