Have you ever found yourself constantly trying to please others, putting their needs before your own?
What is it like to be a people pleaser, always seeking validation and acceptance from those around you?
If you want to know more about this trait and how to overcome it, then this episode is for you.
Join me as I uncover the deep-rooted strugg ... Show More
Nov 4
Ask Jay: How Can I Stop Trying to Prove Myself to Others?
Jay takes four listener calls exploring conflict, relationships, and the pressure to constantly prove yourself. He shares why resolving an argument isn't always the same as understanding it, how to stop letting an old stigma define your worth, and what to do when your efforts go ... Show More
36m 56s
Nov 2
Robert Greene: The Surprising Reason You Feel Unhappy Even When Life Is “Good”
Bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power and The Law of the Sublime, Robert Greene, joins Jay to explore why so many of us feel unfulfilled, even when we're achieving everything we thought we wanted. He opens up about the life-threatening stroke that changed his perspective and ... Show More
1h 31m
Feb 2022
People Pleaser? How to Stop. | E285
Do you have a hard time saying no? Do you feel guilty when you can’t do what others want? If so, you may struggle with people pleasing, a habit that can add a lot of stress to your life and resentment to your relationships. Never fear — this episode of the Love, Happiness and Su ... Show More
51m 10s
Aug 2023
Are You A People-Pleaser?
In this week's episode, Gareth and Kim dissect the deep-rooted and universally prevalent habit of people-pleasing. It's something nearly everyone can relate to, and many really struggle with. For many, setting boundaries can be daunting, and the act of saying 'no' can be intertwi ... Show More
35m 44s
Aug 2025
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Do you say “yes” when you want to say “no?" In this episode, I break down the childhood roots of people-pleasing, the hidden costs it has on your happiness and identity, and practical steps to set boundaries, be assertive, and reclaim your sense of self. Feeling stuck? It's time ... Show More
18m 10s
May 2024
How to Instantly Stop People Pleasing
<p>Have you ever caught yourself constantly saying "yes" to others, even when it means sacrificing your own happiness? Well, my friend, you're not alone! In this episode, we're unpacking the why behind people pleasing and how it sneaks into our lives from childhood.</p><p>But fea ... Show More
17m 58s
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to put yourself first.</p><p> </p><p>Which means you and I are having a conversation about people-pleasing.</p><p> </p><p>You know you do it. I do it, too. </p><p> </p><p>In fact, unless you're a narcissistic jerk (and you’re not if ... Show More
