Do you feel guilty saying "no"? Do you find it hard to have boundaries with people? Find yourself trying to tip toe or make others happy to the detriment of your own wants/needs? Then this episode is for you!
Today I share 6 life changing realisations that helped me stop people pleasing by understanding why I do it, where it came from and what it actually me ... Show More
Jun 28
Aimee Smale Was Shy, Had No Plan and Built a Million Dollar Brand. The Reason Will Surprise You.
You do not need to be the obvious person to build something real. In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Aimee Smale, founder of Odd Muse and 29 year old millionaire, to unpack the story nobody tells about building something from nothing. Not the strategy, no ... Show More
59m 5s
Jun 21
STOP Introducing Yourself With Your Job Title (Say THIS Instead)
You already know what you do. But do you know who you are? In this episode of The Balance Theory, Erika sits down with Rahaf Kobeissi, mental health and mindset expert, published author, and keynote speaker, to unpack one of the most quietly common experiences of high achieving p ... Show More
1h 10m
Feb 2022
People Pleaser? How to Stop. | E285
Do you have a hard time saying no? Do you feel guilty when you can’t do what others want? If so, you may struggle with people pleasing, a habit that can add a lot of stress to your life and resentment to your relationships. Never fear — this episode of the Love, Happiness and Su ... Show More
51m 10s
Oct 2025
How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt/Stop People-Pleasing and Prevent Burnout
Feeling drained from saying "yes" when you really want to say "no"? You're not alone. In this episode on setting healthy boundaries, I explore the guilt, fear, and discomfort that come with honoring your true needs—and how mastering this skill can completely transform your life a ... Show More
10m 17s
Jul 2023
7 Signs You’re a People Pleaser & 7 Methods to Break This Habit
Have you ever found yourself constantly trying to please others, putting their needs before your own? What is it like to be a people pleaser, always seeking validation and acceptance from those around you? If you want to know more about this trait and how to overcome it, then th ... Show More
41m 45s
Aug 2025
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Do you say “yes” when you want to say “no?" In this episode, I break down the childhood roots of people-pleasing, the hidden costs it has on your happiness and identity, and practical steps to set boundaries, be assertive, and reclaim your sense of self. Feeling stuck? It's time ... Show More
18m 10s
<p>In this episode, you are going to learn how to put yourself first.</p><p> </p><p>Which means you and I are having a conversation about people-pleasing.</p><p> </p><p>You know you do it. I do it, too. </p><p> </p><p>In fact, unless you're a narcissistic jerk (and you’re not if ... Show More
