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Feb 2022
51m 10s

People Pleaser? How to Stop. | E285

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
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Do you have a hard time saying no? Do you feel guilty when you can’t do what others want? If so, you may struggle with people pleasing, a habit that can add a lot of stress to your life and resentment to your relationships. Never fear — this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success podcast is full of tips for how to stop saying yes to everything, and star ... Show More
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