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Mar 2023
15m 3s

#422 When Others Hurt You

DR. ROBERT PUFF, PH.D.
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When Others Hurt You

One of the most challenging experiences that can happen to us is when someone we love and trust hurts us.  What can and should we do when others inflict emotional pain on us?  Instead of healing from these wounds, we often turn towards four unhealthy responses.  But we can, thankfully, heal from these hurts and move on.

New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist

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