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Jun 2024
24m 38s

Self Heal Before You Hurt Others

Todd Perelmuter
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Send me a message When we hurt, we hurt others. When others hurt, they hurt us. It's a vicious cycle that has spread its tentacles to every corner of this planet. If we are going to create a more peaceful and loving planet, it's starts with healing ourselves. In today's podcast, I talk about what causes this unbreakable chain of pain, I share how to see bey ... Show More
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