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Mar 2023
47m 34s

81 - Why do I cry after sex ft. Dr Massi...

LOUISE RUMBALL
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Have you ever experienced post-sex tears and wondered WTF? Do you worry that something might be wrong with you, that it's not normal, or that no one else does it? Fear not, because clinical psychologist Dr Massimo Fontana is here to share his expertise and insights on this fascinating topic that happens to so many of us - but that none of us ever talk about. ... Show More
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