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Dec 2023
29m 18s

S5 Ep21: "Will I pee if I orgasm?"

THE REAL SEX EDUCATION
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Cate and Diggory answer listener questions including a rather complicated friendship, internalised homophobia, thinking about sex without masturbating, overcoming the fear of peeing during orgasm, and how to deal with a breakup.


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What episode should you listen to next?

  • 'Why Straight Men have sex with men (with Dr Joe Kort)' features our conversations on some expressions of male sexuality
  • 'The Reasons Why LGBTQ+ Couples Come to Therapy (with Silva Neves)'
  • 'How to Kiss PROPERLY' also features conversations around how to masturbate
  • 'Why do they make porn for pandas' and 'How to Heal a Heartbreak (with Florence Bark)' has more of our thoughts on breakups


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