Oct 2

Hypervigilance and Trauma- How to Get Your Brain to Shut Off

Trauma and hypervigilance keeping you from falling asleep? Learn why your mind won’t stop worrying—and simple ways to make it finally rest. Learn the skills to regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership If your brain won’t shut ... Show More

17m 24s

Sep 18

Emotional Regulation - How to Actually Sit with Your Feelings

If you want to learn how to regulate your emotions, you have to learn the crucial emotional regulation skill of acceptance. Learn the skills to regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Free Course: Grounding Skills for Stress, ... Show More

10m 17s

Sep 4

When You Feel Worthless

Depression, trauma and negative self-talk can leave you feeling worthless or struggling with low self-esteem. But you don’t have to feel depressed forever. Learn how to deal with feeling worthless with 6 practical things you can do to improve your self esteem. Check out the Membe ... Show More

17m 10s

Oct 2023

#568: Stop Beating Yourself Up: It Destroys Your Confidence

Do you find yourself trapped in the cycle of self-criticism and "should haves"? It's time to break free! In this episode, you'll discover 10 compelling reasons to put an end to self-inflicted judgment and learn how to break the mental habit of beating yourself up. If you want to ... Show More

29m 39s

Mar 2022

#488: Self-Pity is Keeping You Stuck and What to Do About It

Feeling sorry for yourself, or over-personalizing how hard things are for you is a sure-fire way to sabotage your confidence. Not only that, self-pity will make things feel 10x harder than they need to be, and will mentally and emotionally exhaust you. This episode will teach you ... Show More

38m 27s

Nov 2023

53 — Develop Self-Compassion & Drown Out Your Inner Critic by Asking Yourself This Question Every Day

The way you talk to yourself greatly affects your mental health and your mental strength. If you call yourself names, put yourself down, or beat yourself up, you'll create a lot of extra hardship for yourself. Fortunately, you can learn to change your inner dialogue. When you do, ... Show More

13m 43s

Sep 2025

When Shame Shows Up; A Therapy Method For Inner Peace When Doing Personal Growth Work

The APP has arrived! <a href="https://studio.com/apps/rebecca" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://studio.com/apps/rebecca</a> If you like the podcast, you will love the Everyday Calm app. It is a daily program that teaches simple skills t ... Show More

5m 42s

Sep 2022

Go a little easier on yourself

There are 4 main ways people tend to beat themselves up: Invalidating your feelings Acknowledging what you could have done better or how you can be better (and not what you DID accomplish or what you did right) Feeling like you don’t deserve something or aren’t worthy of praise ( ... Show More

17m 20s

Dec 2019

Stop Your Negative Self-Talk When Dealing With Social Anxiety

In this Episode... How do you talk to yourself in social situations? And how do you feel about yourself after having an embarrassing or bad experience? Maybe like many, you beat yourself up. It's a normal response if you though ... Show More

10m 22s

Jul 2021

#450: How to Stop Feeling Awful About Yourself

Beating yourself up, or indulging in the emotion of feeling awful about yourself, when you're not where you want to be isn't effective. It's not a helpful thought pattern, and yet, we find ourselves in places of despair. Despair drives us to desperation, depression and disillusio ... Show More

38m 32s

Mar 2025

How to Be Kind to Yourself

Are you way too hard on yourself? In this episode, I break down why self-love feels so hard—and why self-acceptance is actually the key to changing that. Most of us were raised to believe we weren’t enough, and that belief still runs our lives. But what if you could finally br ... Show More

17m 36s

How to Stop Beating Yourself Up