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Mar 2022
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#488: Self-Pity is Keeping You Stuck and...

Trish Blackwell
About this episode
Feeling sorry for yourself, or over-personalizing how hard things are for you is a sure-fire way to sabotage your confidence. Not only that, self-pity will make things feel 10x harder than they need to be, and will mentally and emotionally exhaust you. This episode will teach you to know if you're indulging in self-pity, and what to do about it. You'll learn ... Show More
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