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Oct 2023
29m 39s

#568: Stop Beating Yourself Up: It Destr...

Trish Blackwell
About this episode
Do you find yourself trapped in the cycle of self-criticism and "should haves"? It's time to break free! In this episode, you'll discover 10 compelling reasons to put an end to self-inflicted judgment and learn how to break the mental habit of beating yourself up. If you want to feel better in life, and not feel so much self-created internal pressure, this e ... Show More
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