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Dec 2019
10m 22s

Stop Your Negative Self-Talk When Dealin...

SEBASTIAAN VAN DER SCHRIER
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How do you talk to yourself in social situations? And how do you feel about yourself after having an embarrassing or bad experience? 

Maybe like many, you beat yourself up.  

It's a normal response if you thought at some point that beating yourself up would bring you results you want, but our subconscious minds don't actually work this way.

Have you ever been talked down to for screwing up, now or as a child? I'm sure it only made the problem worse.  No one is in their best, strongest state when they feel down on themselves. 

In this post, I'm sharing how to stop talking down to yourself, when dealing with something like social anxiety, so you can actually start working on the root of the problem. 

The alternative is to put a lid on it and hold onto the problem for the next time...or forever.  It's totally up to you.  Why not just start the healing now?

 

Contact me directly:

www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

Warm regards, Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course.

3.) Let’s connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards, Seb

 

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