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Mar 2021
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#5: Insecurities- If I'm not the BEST, t...

Gloria Zhang, MA
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We've all got insecurities...but what if you're obsessed with being "THE BEST" at something, otherwise you feel like you're nothing at all? In today's episode, I talk about how to release this pattern of overcompensation, and start building true, authentic self-worth. 🙏 Apply To Work 1-1 With Gloria: Private and compassionate 1-1 sessions for Leaders, CE ... Show More
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