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Sep 2023
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90. if you can't beat them, join them. h...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
Hi my loves! In today's episode we chat all things JEALOUSLY ⬇️

-where jealously and comparison comes from
-what to do when there will always be someone who is "better" than you
-mindset shifts for when you start to feeling jealous or comparing your success/beauty to others
-how the people you hang around can mess with your self worth and confidence
-practical tips to rebuild your self worth and confidence
-how living in survival mode and being a "do it all myself" type of person can turn into jelousy
-learning how to become a team player and admire those who you were once jealous of and how to use them as inspiration and motivation
AND MORE 🦋

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