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Nov 2021
18m 41s

#32: Why Aren't They Committing to Me?!

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

When it comes to dating and relationships, there are times when we meet people who won't commit to us, even if we think we've done everything "right". Today I talk about why this pattern is happening and how important Inner Child HEALING is to attracting an aligned partner for life.  Plus... a HUGE relationship update in my own life!

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Episode Highlights:

  • How to tell if someone is emotionally unavailable - whether it's YOU or them
  • Reason #1: You have your blinders on! When we choose emotionally unavailable people, it means that we're doing this based on what feels FAMILIAR to us, which is often deeply rooted in our childhood wounds
  • Common unhealthy patterns to watch out for when choosing romantic partners
  • Reason #2:  Premature Attachment - locking someone down immediately like you're madly in love but actually acting out of FEAR to lose "good" romantic options

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships. 

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