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Sep 2023
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EP 368: How Do I Know if I am Securely A...

DR. MORGAN ANDERSON
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Hey girl, if you're feeling trapped in a cycle of rejection and heartbreak, constantly searching for love but never finding true security, then you are not alone…

You might  find yourself engaging in toxic patterns, settling for less than you deserve, and ignoring red flags in the hope of finding a healthy relationship. 

Unfortunately, despite your efforts, you may be attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable or incapable of providing the secure attachment you crave. But fear not, there IS  hope for building the fulfilling and stable relationships you desire.

Inside of today’s juicy episode about secure attachment style: 

  • Discover the green flags associated with a secure attachment style  
  • Learn why shifting focus from red flags to green flags could be a game-changer for your relationships.
  • Gain insights into what secure attachment really means in the context of relationships.
  • Understand how to delicately balance independence and interdependence in secure attachments.
  • Uncover the impact of open, honest, and direct communication in fostering secure attachment in relationships.

Join me, your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson on the journey to understanding what healthy securely attached relationships look like in practice. 

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