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Jul 2022
46m 28s

45 - You only date or chase emotionally ...

LOUISE RUMBALL
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Constantly chasing after hot and cold men and women? One moment they are interested, the next they aren’t? They say they want to hang out but then they disappear? You get close, then they pull back. This episode is for you - and we have one hard truth to swallow: you only date or chase emotionally unavailable people, if you are emotionally unavailable too Lo ... Show More
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