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May 2021
45m 57s

#244 - Dealing With a Withdrawn Partner:...

DR. LISA MARIE BOBBY
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What to do when your partner shuts down. Are you trying to have a relationship with a partner who avoids, defends or worse... won't talk at all? Few things are as frustrating, or as hurtful. It's hard NOT to get upset and angry when you're feeling rejected, unloved, or uncared for. The problem is that many people who clam up as a defensive strategy when thin ... Show More
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