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Nov 2019
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223: Stop Arguing, Start Connecting

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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No one wants to be wrong. Two individuals often feel they can't both be 'right' when resolving conflict. Learning to hold the needs and feeling of both partners at the same time is a key element to relationship success. Listen to today's show to learn how to stop arguing and take your relationship from 'me' to 'we'. In this episode, we discuss relationship ... Show More
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