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Apr 2020
7m 15s

Why Is Your Ex Contacting You?

LUCIA
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It can be very confusing when you've been broken up with, yet your ex starts to contact you after a period of not hearing from them or they stay in contact. What do they want? Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the many reasons why your ex wants to stay in touch.

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