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Jan 2023
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#85: Why Is My Ex Reaching Out Again? Th...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

Breaking up with an ex and making progress in moving on feels empowering for most of us who've had our hearts broken. But what does it mean when they suddenly slide into your DMs?!

Do they want to get back together? Do they miss you?

Why does it feel so confusing when your ex hits you up again, and set a storm to your emotions?

So in this episode, I'll tell you 3 reasons why they're reaching out again and how you can set boundaries so that you can avoid temptation and continue on with the progress that you've worked so hard for.

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

  1. The first question you need to ask yourself when your ex reaches out after a breakup
  2. Three reasons why your ex is reaching out again
  3. Practical tips on how to avoid breaking the no contact rule, set boundaries and sustain your "moving on" progress for good

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships. 

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