In today's episode I talk about different ways that an ex can be stringing you along. This includes both intentional stringing along and unintentional stringing along. I discuss why this can be so detrimental to your healing, why it's very selfish on the ex's part, and how you stop being strung along.To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, ... Show More
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#329 How to Heal After Infidelity with Lauren LaRusso
In today’s expert episode, I’m sitting down with Lauren LaRusso, a psychotherapist specializing in extramarital affairs and author of "Beyond Infidelity." We go deep into the complex world of infidelity—why it happens, how it affects everyone involved (the betrayed partner, the u ... Show More
50m 8s
Jun 23
#327 Perfectly Hidden Depression: Why High Achievers Struggle in Silence with Dr. Margaret Rutherford
In today’s expert episode, I’m joined by Dr. Margaret Rutherford, clinical psychologist, author, and host of The SelfWork Podcast, to dive deep into the topic of “perfectly hidden depression”—a term she coined and explores in her bestselling book and TEDx talk. We discuss how tho ... Show More
44m 25s
Feb 2023
How to Break the Spell of Trauma Bond Relationships
<p>Can you be addicted to a person? If romantic relationships turn to obsession, especially after they're over, it's time to heal trauma bonds that "hook" you into people who are selfish, manipulative, and who "blow hot and cold." In this podcast, I respond to a letter ... Show More
41m 20s
Aug 2022
#21: Break-Up Q&A: The "No-Contact" Period, Jealousy & Low Self-Worth, Feeling Blindsided, & Dating Mindset
<p>In this episode, I'm answering all your break-up related questions! We're covering whether and when to break a "no-contact" period, how to navigate jealousy and comparison around an ex's new partner, what to do when you feel blindsided by a break-up an ... Show More
26m 48s
Aug 2024
exes and breakups, advice session
hello and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is breakups and exes. this is a topic i could go on about for hours, and no ... Show More
43m 6s
Apr 2025
obsessed with your ex, advice session
[video available on spotify] hello and welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or anything that you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today, we're gonna be discussing very complex figures in our ... Show More
43m 46s
Jun 2020
Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex? | E201
Ever feel like your ex is living rent-free in your head, even though the relationship is so over? Whether it’s been weeks, months, or (gulp) years since your breakup, if you’re wondering “Why do I keep thinking about my ex?” and you’re still caught in a loop of thoughts, memories ... Show More
56m 10s
Aug 2023
#102: Break-Up Q&A: No-Contact, Reconciling, and Guilt
<p>In today's episode, I'm answering your questions on the topic of break-ups. Break-ups are a universally challenging experience, and an area that I receive a lot of questions on.<br/><br/>So today I'm answering your questions on:</p><ul><li>what is a no-contact p ... Show More
16m 7s
Apr 2022
Why Am I Still Hung up on Him?
How do you move forward when the life you had imagined with someone suddenly shatters? Should you sever ties, or pursue the past? In this episode, we'll discuss the pros and cons of each avenue, but most importantly, we'll discuss investing in yourself.
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1h 8m