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Jul 2023
54m 51s

Breakups: Exes & Woes

Laura Eldredge & Nicoletta Bradley
About this episode

Can I be friends with my ex? What if he gets a new girlfriend before I’m dating someone else?

In this week’s episode, we get personal & share some helpful truth to get you through those nasty breakups. Stay tuned for one more episode in our breakup series & as always, dm with questions @callherholy.

Love you,

Laura & Nico

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