The risk you take by being your authenti...

Can the on-off relationship work? What about long-distance relationships? I talk about that and also someone asked me if it's their social anxiety or someone's rude behavior that's to blame. It's a grab bag episode today. 

Other people's insecurities should not make you change for them. If they can't handle who you are, is it on you to make them comfortable or should they just adjust, adapt, or leave you alone? 

You're allowed to tell someone they're hurting you — and if you feel stuck because you avoid conflict or keep punishing with silence, I've been there and will show you how to say it plainly so you know whether they change or reveal who they really are. 

The actor in the relationship can fool the best of us. When you can't tell what's an act and what's real, you soon start to question your own sanity. The actor doesn't love, they control. A real partner shows empathy and wants to see you happy. It's easy to tell the difference lo ... Show More

Bir ilişki içerisinde karşı tarafın sana gerçekten değer vermediğini ve seni kullandığını nasıl anlarsın? 

<p>What should you do if you're insecure, maybe even paranoid, that your partner is going to cheat?  Should you spy on them?  Should you confess your feelings?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to deal with this fear when it shows up in your love life.</p> 

Do you assume everyone has the same values and moral compass as you? Do you assume everyone has good intentions? Or do you assume other people are untrustworthy, even though you have no way of knowing? Whether you are too trusting or more distrustful, this episode is for you. I a ... Show More

When you've been in a relationship with a disturbed manipulative person, regardless of where they are on the spectrum, you get into a real habit of looking outward far too much. All of your attention and energy is focused on what are they going to do next? How are they going to r ... Show More

<p>Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up?&nbsp;Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you’re feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can’t it? We are told vulnera ... Show More

<p>Do you desperately want to be in a relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why feeling as if you <em>need</em> to have someone in your life is a sympton of a bigger issue and what to do about it so that you choose someone out of desire rather than desperation. ... Show More

<p>Do You Deliberately Create Insecurity in Relationships? - Some people create insecurity in relationships by purpose because of an incident in their past.</p>