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Jul 2015
4m 44s

Are You Needy In Love?

LUCIA
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Do you desperately want to be in a relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why feeling as if you need to have someone in your life is a sympton of a bigger issue and what to do about it so that you choose someone out of desire rather than desperation.

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