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Jul 2016
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The secrets that we keep - Feeling overe...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Where do you go when you have a secret that you believe someone else needs to know? Are you loyal to the secret teller? Do you tell the person who should know the secret? It's a question to ponder, where do your loyalties lies and what should you do with a secret you are committed to keeping? Also, I receive a letter from someone who shares and expresses to ... Show More
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