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Feb 2019
24m 41s

#128: Handling Aggression in 13-Month-Ol...

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist
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Aggression in these toddler years is so common when kids don't have the skills to share frustrations in a more appropriate manner, especially early on when even language skill is so minimal. Erin covers both ends of the toddler spectrum and aggression, giving tip for helping a mom with a 13 month old who can get aggressive when she doesn't get her way and al ... Show More
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