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Feb 2025
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How To Handle Sibling Fights: Parenting ...

NATALIE BACON
About this episode

Safe to say, my boys have entered the "fighting phase"—and why I'm calling it a phase, I have no idea, because I know this is just part of life with siblings!

 

If your kids fight too, you're not alone. I've been navigating this stage in my own home, and I know how frustrating (and exhausting) it can feel.

 

In this episode, I'm sharing exactly what to do when your kids fight, so you can stay calm, set clear expectations, and actually help them work through conflict—without yelling or stepping in every five seconds.

 

Not only does this approach work and feel better for you, but it also teaches your kids lifelong conflict-resolution skills. I've seen the difference firsthand with my boys, and I know it can help you too.

 

Tune in to learn practical parenting tips for handling sibling fights in a way that keeps the peace and strengthens their relationship.

 

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