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Sep 2025
1h 8m

How to connect with a child that shuts y...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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Send us Fan Mail This episode will change how you see your child’s moods and how you respond to them. If you’ve ever tiptoed around your child in the morning, worried the “wrong” cereal bowl or shirt will set off a meltdown, this conversation is for you. Joining me is Dr. Alex Reed, pediatric clinical psychologist and mom of two, who has spent years helping ... Show More
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