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Jul 8
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How to Get Your Toddler to Listen Withou...

Erin Hyer
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Is your toddler always pushing back, melting down, or refusing to help? 

From messy playtime to getting out the door, you’ll learn how to:

 – Encourage turn-taking, even with babies

 – Turn cleanup into connection

 – Use routines and rules to reduce drama

 – Make transitions smoother

 – And raise a child who wants to help — without bribes, yelling, or power struggles

In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of real-life experience — shares 7 simple, science-backed ways to TEACH cooperation in everyday moments.

These are prevention-first  tools every parent needs.

👶 Ready for smoother days and more confident parenting? 

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Podcast Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting.

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