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Jul 8
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How to Get Your Toddler to Listen Withou...

Erin Hyer
About this episode

Is your toddler always pushing back, melting down, or refusing to help? 

From messy playtime to getting out the door, you’ll learn how to:

 – Encourage turn-taking, even with babies

 – Turn cleanup into connection

 – Use routines and rules to reduce drama

 – Make transitions smoother

 – And raise a child who wants to help — without bribes, yelling, or power struggles

In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of real-life experience — shares 7 simple, science-backed ways to TEACH cooperation in everyday moments.

These are prevention-first  tools every parent needs.

👶 Ready for smoother days and more confident parenting? 

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Podcast Disclaimer:
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting.

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