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Sep 30
14m 50s

STOP Trying to Be Calm. This Is How You ...

Civility Media
About this episode
Being told to “calm down” never actually makes you calmer. In this episode, I unpack what “calm” really means in conversation—and why it often backfires. Instead of aiming for a blank-slate calm, I’ll show you how to create a grounded connection—a way to stay present, regulate your emotions, and still lean into the conversation with honesty. And stick around ... Show More
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