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Sep 2025
50m 57s

The childhood trauma we try to leave in ...

Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert
About this episode
If returning to your childhood hometown stirs up memories you'd rather leave behind, does that mean you're not ready to face them? I'll dive into this area with a heartfelt question from someone seeking closure from past trauma, wondering if revisiting their roots could be the key to healing and rediscovering their lost self. 
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