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Aug 2025
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Why Avoidant Get Into Rebounds

Annalisa Bahadur
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This is what we are talking about today- Why avoidants rush into reboundsThe negative consequences of rebound relationshipsWhether avoidants come back to their exWhat their (often anxious) partners should doHealthier alternatives for avoidantsHow secure individuals handle breakups and reboundsDon’t forget to leave a review so others can know how this episode ... Show More
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