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Aug 7
27m 8s

The Secret to Getting TENS: How to Get T...

Mark Sing
About this episode

In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down his approach to attracting the most desirable women, “TENS.” He delivers a no-holds-barred playbook filled with psychological strategies, social dynamics, and field-tested techniques to elevate your dating game. Whether you're tired of dating below your standards or you're looking to meet your dream girl, this episode serves as a tactical guide for personal transformation and social dominance.

 

With a strong background in NLP, hypnotherapy, and field experience in attraction, Mark brings a results-oriented perspective to self-improvement and dating. His insights combine discipline, mindset training, and real-world social experimentation, making him a go-to expert for men seeking to elevate their dating lives.

 

🔑Key Takeaways:

  • Why is training essential before implementation in dating

  • The immersion phase versus maintenance phase - and why immersion wins

  • How to leverage social status and positioning to meet higher-quality women

  • The role of Instagram and preselection in modern attraction

  • How to maintain frame control and shift focus from yourself to her

 

⌛Key Timestamps:

[00:00:00] – Intro & What This Episode Will Deliver
[00:02:57] – Delta Force Analogy: Train Hard, Let Go of the Uncontrollable
[00:06:14] – Social Pressure: Always be ready to tackle a rejection
[00:10:32] – Do Something That Sucks: The Daily Discipline of Getting Better
[00:12:36] – Put Yourself in a Socially Powerful Position
[00:15:19] – The Importance of Status and How to Manufacture It
[00:18:44] – Leveraging Instagram and Preselection Tactics
[00:21:56] – Focus on Her State, Not Yours: From Good to Great Pickup
[00:23:39] – Final Tips: Frame Control, Status, Abundance Mindset

 

Connect With Mark:

🔥 Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/

💎 Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/

📩 Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/

🎁 Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula

 

About The Unapologetic Man Podcast

The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.

#DatingAdvice #SelfImprovement #ConfidenceCoach #AttractWomen #MensDevelopment #HighValueMan #SocialDynamics #UnapologeticMan

 

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