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Feb 2025
54m 31s

How to Read Women, Know What to Say, and...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.

Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:

2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman

4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen

7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection

15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps

21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life

23:45: Hayley’s Top Tips for How to Read Women

36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make—and How to Fix It

50:27: How Hayley Changes Men’s Lives with In-Person Coaching

Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!


TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: http://www.hayleyquinn.com/


CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
Connell@datingtransformation.com
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