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Jan 2025
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What to Write on Your Bio: 7 Secrets for...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women
love—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.

You’re about to learn:

02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower

4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It

6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile

12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist

15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way

17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First

20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches

23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!

Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.

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