Eliminating your nice guy qualities that are turning girls off and transforming yourself into the type of guy that girls want to be around is what you must do in order to date the caliber of women you actually want. Legendary dating coach Carlos Xuma will show you how to do this.
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Apr 17
How To Kill Neediness With Women
A lot of your frustration with women doesn’t come from saying the wrong thing. It comes from subtle neediness that kills attraction before anything can grow. In this episode, you’ll learn how neediness shows up in your texting, your energy, and your behavior, why women feel it in ... Show More
58m 23s
Mar 2026
Hear the Exact Moment She Becomes Attracted (Real Infield Audio)
If you can start a conversation but you never know how to tell when she’s actually feeling it, you end up guessing, overthinking, and either forcing it or playing it too safe. You’ll learn the exact cues that show attraction is turning on and the simple moves that keep momentum g ... Show More
34 m
Mar 2026
The #1 Mental Habit That’s Crushing Your Results With Women
If you keep getting stuck with girls, it’s probably not your looks, height, or texting, it’s the way you’re burning your attention on comparison, regret, and “what if” future-thinking. You’ll learn how to catch that mental trap in real time and instantly snap back into execution ... Show More
29m 35s
Oct 2025
Be Magnetic to Women as the Nice Guy You Are—By Doing ONE Thing
Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a woman he’d never met—with an un ... Show More
21m 35s
Jun 2025
How to Be Bold, Flirty—and Never, Ever ‘That Creepy Guy’: A Dating Guide for Modern Gentlemen
Dating and flirting can feel like a minefield. If you’re like many men in the #MeToo era, the fear of seeming creepy or weird can crush your confidence. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shows you how to be bold, fli ... Show More
48m 36s
Mar 2025
Forget Pickup Lines: Why Vulnerability is Your Dating Superpower (with Lisa Hickey of the Good Men Project)
Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidd ... Show More
1h 4m