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Jul 2020
39m 25s

Destroy The Nice Guy & Become The “Bad B...

TRIPP KRAMER
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Eliminating your nice guy qualities that are turning girls off and transforming yourself into the type of guy that girls want to be around is what you must do in order to date the caliber of women you actually want. Legendary dating coach Carlos Xuma will show you how to do this.

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