Eliminating your nice guy qualities that are turning girls off and transforming yourself into the type of guy that girls want to be around is what you must do in order to date the caliber of women you actually want. Legendary dating coach Carlos Xuma will show you how to do this.
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Apr 17
How To Kill Neediness With Women
A lot of your frustration with women doesn’t come from saying the wrong thing. It comes from subtle neediness that kills attraction before anything can grow. In this episode, you’ll learn how neediness shows up in your texting, your energy, and your behavior, why women feel it in ... Show More
58m 23s
Mar 6
Hear the Exact Moment She Becomes Attracted (Real Infield Audio)
If you can start a conversation but you never know how to tell when she’s actually feeling it, you end up guessing, overthinking, and either forcing it or playing it too safe. You’ll learn the exact cues that show attraction is turning on and the simple moves that keep momentum g ... Show More
34 m
Mar 3
The #1 Mental Habit That’s Crushing Your Results With Women
If you keep getting stuck with girls, it’s probably not your looks, height, or texting, it’s the way you’re burning your attention on comparison, regret, and “what if” future-thinking. You’ll learn how to catch that mental trap in real time and instantly snap back into execution ... Show More
29m 35s
Oct 2025
Be Magnetic to Women as the Nice Guy You Are—By Doing ONE Thing
Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a woman he’d never met—with an un ... Show More
21m 35s
Dec 2024
Make Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with Jack
Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coac ... Show More
1h 12m
Jun 2023
How to Be a Better Man, Featuring Alex Manley, author of “The New Masculinity”
As a single man, you likely battle fear from time to time—and not just on the dating scene.<br /><br />Maybe you’re afraid to be emotionally vulnerable with people because you’ve been told it’s a sign of weakness.<br /><br />Perhaps you get angry—at women, the world, yourself—and ... Show More
1h 7m
Sep 2022
How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend
How to Gain Confidence and Attract Your Dream Girlfriend
Do you struggle with your love life? Do you lack dates, lack confidence, and even lack hope? Do you want to approach attractive women, but you never do? Maybe you get lonely at times, too.
Help is on the way! Dating coach C ... Show More
1h 15m
May 2024
THIS is The #1 Type of Women Who Will Sabotage You, Degrade You, and Crush Your Confidence
<p>One of the primary reasons why men struggle with women is because we use logic to try and appeal to them. Surely by giving her everything she wants and being a good boy, she's going to fall in love with me, right?</p> <p>Nothing could be further from the truth, when you over-s ... Show More
18m 44s
Jun 2025
How to Be Bold, Flirty—and Never, Ever ‘That Creepy Guy’: A Dating Guide for Modern Gentlemen
Dating and flirting can feel like a minefield. If you’re like many men in the #MeToo era, the fear of seeming creepy or weird can crush your confidence. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shows you how to be bold, fli ... Show More
48m 36s