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Jul 29
11m 38s

When You Feel Like the Afterthought

Chad Lawson
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What happens when the person you love is still grieving someone else? This episode is for anyone who’s felt like they showed up late, living in the shadow of a love that came before. We’ll explore the quiet comparisons, the guilt of feeling them, and the ache of wondering if there’s space for you in a heart still healing. Most of all, it’s about stepping i ... Show More
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