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Jul 15
18m 53s

Frontal lobe fully cooked

Unbothered
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Our frontal lobes are fully cooked, and we’ve got a list. No more situationships, gaslighting, or boyfriends who ruin birthdays. We’re done dating people who “like the idea of us,” done playing therapist for people who won’t get help, and done shrinking to make other people comfortable. This episode is a rapid-fire takedown of everything we’re leaving behind now that our prefrontal cortex finally decided to show up.


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