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Aug 2024
45m 38s

You CAN Mess Things Up With The Right Pe...

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
About this episode

You’re gonna be mad at me for this one. On today’s solo episode, I break down why you can mess things up with the right person. We discuss behaviors like overtexting, drunk texting, leaning on them too soon, trauma dumping early on, sloppiness, and more. But don’t worry, we also discuss the ways to not mess it up.


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