You’re gonna be mad at me for this one. On today’s solo episode, I break down why you can mess things up with the right person. We discuss behaviors like overtexting, drunk texting, leaning on them too soon, trauma dumping early on, sloppiness, and more. But don’t worry, we also discuss the ways to not mess it up.
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Nov 16
Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus
<p>Nate Berkus joins us to talk about the beautiful intersection between love, design, and the spaces we call home. He shares the story of how he met his husband Jeremia, and opens up about what it really takes to maintain a healthy relationship. We dive into how someone’s person ... Show More
50m 44s
Nov 9
The Loneliness Between Life Stages
<p>Today’s solo is about the loneliness we feel throughout different stages of our lives. I talk about the post-college void, the mid 20s relationship and splinter era, and the post-baby or settled down loneliness. I also discuss rules for dating around the holidays, texting habi ... Show More
58m 18s
Aug 2024
Tastefully Passive Aggressive (a How-to Guide)
<p>This week, Chelsey & Jaci are giving you their best advice for confronting your cheating FIL, having a DTR with your situationship, & dating long distance! They also chat about mouth taping, gua shua-ing your hair, & outspoken relatives! </p><p><br></p><p>Watc ... Show More
1h 6m
Jul 2024
Solving Listener Dating Scenarios — Part 2
<p>We're back with more listener scenarios and ladies... I can't believe some of the things you are going through! Let's break down guys making excuses for us not to meet their friends, staging coincidental "run-ins", living with someone before marriage, what you have to do to ba ... Show More
47m 52s
Nov 2024
How to Respond to Gaslighting
Ever been in an argument where someone twists your words, denies things that happened, or makes you doubt your own reality?
Gaslighting can be one of the most frustrating and confusing behaviors to deal with. It leaves you questioning your memory, feeling blamed, and wondering i ... Show More
15m 6s
Oct 2024
ASK P: Love vs. Career, Getting Married Young, & Possessive Dating
<p><strong>Episode Description: </strong></p><p>#166. In this month’s installment of ASK P, we are discussing a few issues plaguing our early 20-something listeners. From rushing to the alter, to long-distance with no end in sight, Payton’s doing her best to give the girlies ... Show More
38m 52s
Mar 2024
Ep.105 Are You A "Bad Texter"?
<p>In this episode, we dive headfirst into the messy world of modern phone behavior. From navigating the awkwardness of calling someone in 2024 to dealing with “bad texters”, we explore the unspoken rules (and hilarious fails) of phone calls, FaceTimes, and texting.</p><p>Whether ... Show More
56m 17s
Jun 2024
Are You an Asshole to Yourself?
I had a conversation with a friend recently where I mentioned all of the things I wanted to get done by the end of the day.
I wanted to record a podcast, finish off an old project and start on a new one, edit the week's content, and take the girls to the park. Within two hours ... Show More
31m 15s
Sep 2024
#236 When You Lose Your Absolute S#%T at Your Ex
<p>In today's solo episode I'm talking about what happens when you given in to those obsessions and don't hold your tongue when it comes to your ex. Whether you called them a dozen times in a row, sent a message you wish you hadn't, said something mean during the breakup, or what ... Show More
23m 4s
Sep 18
Wedding “Rules” Are Dead, with Jaleigh Friend of The Friend Club
<p>#212. Forget everything you think you know about wedding planning. Jaleigh Friend, founder of The Friend Club and veteran of 1,500+ couple consultations, is here to demolish the outdated rules keeping your wedding from feeling authentic. We’re talking about which traditions yo ... Show More
48m 25s
Feb 2025
ASK P: Learning to Live for Yourself, Remedies to Feeling Stuck, & Seeking Closure After a Breakup
<p>#186. In this month’s installment of ASK P, a segment where I do my best to answer listener Qs, we’re discussing relationships, independence, mental health & breakup aftermath. </p><p><br></p><p>FOLLOW PAYTON:</p><p><a href="https://instagram.com/paytonsartain" rel="n ... Show More
53m 59s
Apr 2025
Sleep Trouble, The First Ghost, Getting Over Your Ex
<p>You’ve got problems, Jeff and Alex are here to solve them. This week, they’re digging into your love life. Like what to do when your friend’s partner feels like your person, how to survive your first ghosting, and why sleeping next to someone can be such a pain. Plus, what to ... Show More
49m 59s