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Jun 2025
8m 24s

THE LET THEM THEORY

Mafe Anzures
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In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of the “Let Them Theory,” a mindset shift that encourages us to let people be who they are instead of trying to control their actions. We explore how embracing this philosophy can bring more peace, freedom, and authenticity into our lives, while reducing the emotional drain of constant people-pleasing.

Through real-life examples and practical insights, we’ll show you how to apply this theory to your own relationships—whether it’s with friends, family, coworkers, or even strangers. We’ll also discuss when to set boundaries, what “letting them” doesn’t mean, and how this simple mindset shift can change everything. Tune in and discover why letting go might be the best way to find your own happiness and inner peace.

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