If you’re tired of managing everyone’s moods, overexplaining yourself, fixing issues that aren’t yours to fix, or proving your worth to people who don’t see it, this episode is your reset.
In this solo episode, Mel unpacks the life-changing tool that millions of people around the world can’t stop talking about:
The Let Them Theory.
For the first time on ... Show More
Yesterday
If You’re Feeling Stuck in Life, Listen to This
If you’ve been feeling lost, overwhelmed, exhausted, or like you’re meant for more but can’t seem to move forward, this episode is for you. It’s finally time you get unstuck. In today’s solo episode, Mel breaks down the 3 traps that keep you stuck – the hidden patterns that leave ... Show More
50m 22s
May 11
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence
In today’s episode, you’ll learn how to beat self-doubt, stop procrastinating, and communicate with ease and confidence. Joining Mel today is Dr. Shadé Zahrai, a behavioral researcher and confidence expert, to teach you a research-backed, 4-part framework for building unshakeable ... Show More
1h 19m
May 7
The Reality of Adult Friendship: Here’s Why You’re Lonely & How to Make Real Friends as an Adult
If you’ve ever felt like making friends as an adult feels impossible, or you’ve looked around and thought, "Where did all my friends go?" – you are not alone. Or maybe you have friends, and you want deeper connections, but you don’t know how to create it without forcing it. Frien ... Show More
1h 19m
Jan 2025
S2 EP2 | Managing Stress- Let Them Stress You Out | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 2, Episode 2 of The Messy Podcast!
In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, a powerful tool for managing stress and reclaiming your energy. While you can’t control others' actions, you absolutely control how you respond to them. This ... Show More
14m 32s
Jan 2025
S1 EP3 | Stop Wasting Your Life on Things You Can’t Control | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | The Messy Podcast
Welcome to Season 1, Episode 3 of The Messy Podcast!
In this episode, we dive into the life-changing principles of The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, exploring how you can stop wasting time and energy trying to control things that are beyond your control. Learn how to reclaim yo ... Show More
12 m
Feb 2023
3 REASONS WHY YOU TAKE PEOPLE'S OPINIONS TOO SERIOUSLY - AND 3 WAYS TO STOP THAT [RE-RELEASE]
As I sit here in the final throes of editing my upcoming book, I’m worried what you’ll think if I don’t give you another podcast this week. That’s when I thought this is the perfect episode to re-release … Why do other people’s opinions about you matter so much to you? Or, well, ... Show More
50m 25s
Mar 2025
Mel Robbins: How to Handle Difficult People with the Let Them Theory
Ever find yourself stuck in your own head, overthinking a conversation, or worrying about how someone will react? This episode is for you.
Today I sit down with the legendary Mel Robbins – NYT #1 bestselling author, speaker, and the force behind The Let Them Theory. She breaks d ... Show More
1 h
Mar 2025
Let Them Theory - Mel Robbins
<p>This episode is brought to you by the <em>Self-Conscious</em> podcast, hosted by Chrissy Teigen. </p><br><p>Mel Robbins is an accomplished author, motivational speaker, former lawyer, and one of the most sought-after self-help experts in America. Her TEDx talk, "How to Stop Yo ... Show More
23m 54s
Jun 2025
2618: [Part 1] Setting Limits Can Keep You Sane: Here’s How to Do It by Elana Miller of Zen Psychiatry on Protecting Your Time
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2618: Elana Miller shares how her mindfulness experiment of saying "yes" to everything revealed the hidden cost of constant ... Show More
8m 17s
Oct 2020
#39: How To Stop Caring What Others Think of You
<p>In this solo episode Mary talks about how to stop caring about OPO (other people’s opinions), OPE (other people’s expectations) and OPA (other people’s agendas). You will learn how to truly live for yourself, not other people, and what it means when you’re feeling “stuck” in l ... Show More
38m 13s
Oct 2025
Mel Robbins: "I Was Lost & Trapped Until 47 Yrs!" -How To Stop Overwhelm & Take CONTROL Of Your Life (Fan Fave)
It’s Lisa Bilyeu with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today Mel Robbins and I will frikin’ CHANGE YOUR LIFE and help you get to your goals in JUST 50 minutes! So if you feel like you’re constantly losing it, always overwhelmed, easily distracted, or the worst, A ... Show More
55m 27s